In This Issue Experience creation, rituals and sovereign re/creation Musings and such Queer scar care drop-inMonday, Jan 15th at 18h Workbooks & ResourcesFree/PWYC on Ko-fi Pleasure (your) Chest starting Jan 20 Embodiment exploration with Kori & Jess Hi Reader, May you ease-fully craft this year in accordance with what is for the purpose of what you desire. Here are some thoughts on experience creation, rituals and sovereign re/creation. Disparate threads woven together I used to wonder why I...
8 months ago • 5 min read
In This Issue A practice in vulnerabilityPleasure & elemental queer magick Weave your support constellationWednesday, Dec 6th Erotic scar care & genital disarmament(warning: mention of sexual trauma) Hi Reader, I'm knees deep in a three-month somatic writing course which has me engaging in ever-increasing practices of vulnerability -- so I'm gonna try some shit out and trust that you're here cause you want to be, or you'll see yourself out gently. My princess refers to my raw unveiling as...
10 months ago • 6 min read
I'm dialing in from my local collective of queer and trans bodyworkers offering healing support of gender related scars for those who are gender non-conforming including but not limited to intersex, two-spirit, trans, and/or non-binary people. Ya'll are aware of the barriers to access that we face in obtaining gender related surgeries, but may not realize how many of us struggle after these operations. We are striving to change that! Whether from a hysterectomy, gender-affirming bottom...
11 months ago • 4 min read
In This Issue Collective AfterCare Post-Protest Somatic Gendering Online Course (100$ off) Last Chance: Grief & Pleasure Circle Hi Reader, Fuck, it's awfully rough waters out there ya'll. I have trust this is a rubber-band effect that will spring back, but in the meantime people are struggling to find a sense of safety in their body and support within community. We've gathered lots of tools but many of us find it a challenge to get ourselves to do the self care that ensures we don't blow the...
12 months ago • 4 min read
SCHEDULE A FREE EXPLORATORY CALL WEBSITE INSTAGRAM YOUTUBE In This Issue Gender Affirming Sacred Intimacy Masculinizing Top Surgery Grief & Pleasure Circle: scar and heart care support Gender Doulas: crowd sourcing Recent Conversations: Erotic Grief & Access Gender Affirming Sacred Intimacy I just returned from a week long genderqueer neo-tantric teachers intensive and I'm lit on fire ya'll. I've been enjoying the energetics of breath play/work since I received my first ecstatic massage at...
about 1 year ago • 5 min read
SCHEDULE A FREE EXPLORATORY CALL WEBSITE INSTAGRAM YOUTUBE In This Issue How Do You Define Pleasure? Top Surgery: Grief & Pleasure Circle Scar Care Demo Night: November 14th How Do You Define Pleasure? Pleasure is a state or feeling of being pleased; something that gives satisfaction, enjoyment. I use the word PLEASURE, knowing it's loaded. For many it has associations of eroticism or sexuality. Yes, I am, my space is, and my offerings are: sex positive, inviting of the erotic, pleasure...
about 1 year ago • 3 min read
Exploring Joyful and Inclusive Sexual Adaptation:Embracing Creative Possibilities I spend much of my time with erotic coaching clients working out adaptations to meet them where they are in their bodies and needs. Disability and different abilities: working with chronic pain, paralysis, autism, depression and so on. Access due to aging bodies, arthritis, fatness, emotional well-being, flexibility and more. There's also a lot of finagling various sex toys and non-sex toys to have the kind of...
about 1 year ago • 4 min read
Gender-Affirming Scar Care Practitioner Showcase Monday 21 August, 18h30-20h30By donation (to cover the venue + proceeds go to the P/c BIPOC fund)Read about the panelists / practitioners here Register to Attend Here In the tapestry of our lives, our scars are the threads that tell a story. They are the tangible evidence of transformation, of journeys taken and identities shed and/or embraced. From the heart of our trans and gender non-conforming community, where strength and resilience are...
about 1 year ago • 3 min read
Taking, thinking about, or know someone on hormone replacement therapy? I began taking testosterone in the Summer of 2019. Thankfully, a new sweetie recorded a few videos of me that day (here's a quickie of my first dosage). Since that time, I've been tracking my voice with ongoing recordings of a poem a dear friend write, images of my changing vulva, and a ton of data about my mood, muscle growth, nutrition needs, menses and moon cycles, fat distribution, access to emotions, and more. I knew...
about 1 year ago • 3 min read